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I have a friend, when he was single, he swore to marry a woman with a degree, so that they share the same wave length & are competible.  Eventually he did marry one. But later he complained about having endless arguements with the wife, because she always has opinions, she is not docile enough. 

I always wanted a job that is less stressful, less weekend work, less stayback nights & more managerial tasks. After a while, I think it is boring, there are too much routine, there is not much learning.

The same good things sometimes are not going to be the same when the circumstances changed, or when we have too much of it.

Maybe life is a paradox.

Maybe we have to learn accepting the whole package of what we are getting.